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7 Ways to Rate Your Church
How to measure your
church's ministry.
by Leith Anderson
Money magazine annually rates the 300 best places in
America to live. The ratings are based on climate, affordability, amenities,
crime rate, public transportation, medical care, and other factors.
A similar approach has been taken with churches. Several
major metropolitan newspapers regularly review churches. A religion writer makes
an unannounced Sunday visit and analyzes everything from the sign on the outside
to the sermon on the inside. Like restaurant and theater reviewers, some writers
even use ratings, from one star (poor) to five stars (excellent).
Before protesting the impropriety of such ratings, reread
Revelation 1–3 and recall the biblical reviews of the seven churches of Asia
Minor.
Most people rate church atmosphere within the first 15
minutes of their first visit. They may not be able to fully explain how they
reached their conclusions, but here's what they're likely looking for:
1.
Sensing the presence of God
People expect God to come to church. I wish I could define what exactly people
are looking for. I can't. I guess it's like beauty—you know it when you see it
even though you can't put it in words.
In Steve Macchia's book Becoming a Healthy Church, he
tells the story of a pizza delivery person walking into the new ministry center
of Community Covenant Church in Rehoboth, Massachusetts. Ten feet into the
building, he stopped and asked, "What's going on here? What's this presence?"
Just as people can sense the presence of evil, they can sense
the presence of God. For some who have never before experienced God, this single
characteristic may determine their choice of church. Experiencing the
supernatural is such a high priority in today's culture that its importance
dwarfs everything else in rating a church's atmosphere.
Experiencing the supernatural dwarfs everything else as
people rate a church's atmosphere.
2.
Others-centered
Some churches are self-centered. Some are others-centered. It's not hard to tell
the difference.
A friend recently entered a church lobby on a Sunday morning
and walked straight into a donut-and-coffee hour. The people were talking and
laughing and having a good time. They liked their church, but they never noticed
her. After a few minutes of uncomfortable invisibility, she proceeded to the
worship center where she sat in a pew alone for ten minutes. Finally an older
lady sat and talked with her. The older lady also was new.
By contrast, an others-centered church is immediately
interested in new people, what they need, and how the church can help. Such
churches have a customized approach that changes with every person. The
others-centered church talks little about its programs or its people unless that
is truly helpful to the newcomer.
When our son was looking for a church in southern California,
someone at one church told him, "You really should check out X Church across
town with a singles ministry that would fit you better than anything we have to
offer."
I was impressed. I found that church attractive—truly
others-centered.
3.
Understandable terminology
Healthy churches tend to speak in terms everyone can understand. They make an
effort to translate religious terminology into everyday language rather than to
repeat clichés and jargon that constantly remind insiders they are insiders.
An insider knows that a revival is a series of weekday and
weekend religious services, but an outsider might never guess. "Passing the
peace" is a common part of many liturgies but sounds a lot like asking for more
pizza at the dinner table. "The ushers will wait on us for the offering" could
mean that they aren't going to let anyone out until we all put something in. The
most alienating lingo is abbreviations: BYO may mean "Baptist Youth
Organization" to church members but "Bring Your Own" beverages (or booze) to
everyone else.
Blessed are those churches where everyone can understand what
is being communicated!
4.
People who look like me
As soon as most of us enter a room, we look around to see what everyone looks
like. Our level of comfort can be high or low depending on how quickly we find
someone else who looks like us. In a room full of women, a man thinks, I'm in
the wrong place. In a church where all the people up front are men, women wonder
if they are welcome. In a gathering where everyone is young and casually
dressed, the older person in a business suit feels out of place. When everyone
else is white, the person of color notices.
That can be hard to change. If everyone in the church is old,
younger people are less likely to come. The church that wants to be integrated
may have a challenge getting started. Yet, it is amazing how even the smallest
symbols can make an impact. Seeing one person who looks and dresses "like me" up
on the platform or ushering or pictured in church publicity can communicate an
open and inviting atmosphere.
5.
Healthy problem handling
You can often tell more about a church by the way it handles problems than by
the way it handles success. This makes for an easy measure because every church
has problems.
What happens when the sound system emits a squeal or drops
into embarrassing silence? How does the preacher respond to the howling
two-year-old? Do nursery workers apologize or become defensive when they can't
find your baby's diaper bag? When the church is running behind budget, is there
a denunciation for undergiving or a challenge to prayer and generosity?
What makes a healthy church is not the absence of problems.
It's how problems are handled.
6.
Accessibility
Every Saturday the Minneapolis Star Tribune reviews a local church, and
every review evaluates whether the church building is handicapped accessible and
whether there is adequate parking.
However, wheelchair ramps and parking stalls are only the
beginning of accessibility. Is there clear and easy access to getting questions
answered, meeting new people, talking to church leaders, joining the membership,
discovering opportunities for spiritual growth, becoming part of a small group,
resolving complaints, and signing up to serve? High ratings go to churches that
are "barrier free" in every sense of the term.
At our church, every attender is invited to complete an
information card at every service. There are blocks to check areas of interest.
Each week many people write questions, comments, and criticisms on the back of
their cards. By Monday morning all of the cards are sorted and assigned for
personalized follow-up. It is part of our commitment to be accessible in every
possible way.
7.
Sense of expectancy
Listen to hallway conversations about the church, and you can decide if the
primary verb tense is past, present, or future. Most healthy churches are
hopeful churches. They are permeated with high expectations of God's blessing
for the future.
The majority of people who come to church feel beaten up
Monday through Saturday; they are not looking for another beating on Sunday.
They come to church for healing and hope. They want to hear the good news of
Jesus Christ. They want to be told that God is there, God has not forgotten
them, and God will bless them in the future. The church that truly believes and
says that "because of Jesus Christ the best is yet to come"—that is the church
that breathes spiritually healthy air.
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